if there are any ofp non res servers out there, then they will be using a later version than 1.02. The patches are free and can be downloaded from the following site
The latest non resistance patch is 1.46
http://www.flashpoint1985.com/download/index3.htmlyou will have better chance of finding an ofp server if you buy the resistance addpack
Currently OFP Resistance servers are running at the latest version 1.96
These servers are likely to die off at the back end of this year when BIS the OFP developers release their next generation Flashpoint game called Armed assault
The existing OFPR servers are mainly concentrating on COOP and CTI type missions although there is still some interest in the player v player games and there are still active leagues.
Many of them use mods and addon packs (which are all free)
All in all, you are trying to play ofp at the back end of its multiplayer life, you will have a much better chance with Operation Flashpoint Resistance and patching to 1.96.
Investing in this addpack will definitely give you about 4 months of play
I dont expect there to be much interest after the release of armed assault, but you never know. Its doubtful that BIS will get AA wrong, but who knows