And here comes something funny too.
LaserTargets are "enemy" sided.
For example a BLUFOR recon unit activates its target, the laser target object is of type laserTargetW and its side is EAST. If you provide a laser designator to an OPFOR unit, the target object type would be laserTargetE and its side is WEST.
BUT
If you provide a laser designator to an Independent or civilian unit, the laser object type would be laserTargetC and its side is CIV.
So, any RES (Independent) unit (or civilia) with laser guided bombs or laser guided missiles would not engange any laserTarget illuminated by friendly forces, because the target object itself is friendly
Even more, Independent units friendly to BLUFOR illuminating targets would have the same result, the target is CIV so BLUFOR AV8Bs would not engange.