Okay I'll keep it to minumum or moderate violence. So the hand guns and rifles make the bloody rashes but what about bigger weapons like grenades, rockets, and tank guns?
Maybe rockets just evaporate ppl so there is no lag and some blood is left so we don't see corpses flying away from the battle site 50 m in the air. Same with tank guns, a guy gets a sabot round or HEAT in the face, he should be well, gone.
Alright my new idea is how guys go down, like a leg shot sends them spinning to the ground or they stumble. A chest shot would have them pause and fall slowly to their knees and then to the ground.
Something along those lines....